Try to understand from his point of view, you’re a beginner so you’re still learning, he’s comparing you to all the other dancers he’s danced with and many of them would be quite experienced.

So from that point of view, you’ve done very well.

Take it as some honest advice, keep practising and one day maybe you can dance with him again and he’ll be wow’d

I am a beginner salsa dancer who has just started to dance in clubs. I thought I was quite good as in posture, styling but I know I have a long way to go. I was dancing with an experienced dancer however who had no tension. I thought the dance went fine. Later I again met him and he told me he would just like to tell me, that he dances with at least 20 women per night and he could tell I was too self consciousness, inhibited, lack of flow etc. I was shocked and told him I was a beginner and still learning and I though I danced well for my level! I dont mind constructive criticism but what does one say in response to these comments? I think he was a man who just wanted to knock my confidence as I am funny enough quite dramatic when I dance and dont feel inhibited ironically!

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